Sunnahs of Nikah, with Supporting Hadiths

Here is a list of Sunnahs of Nikah directly supported by authentic Hadiths, ensuring a marriage is conducted in line with the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW):

1. Keeping the Nikah Simple

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“The best marriage is the one that is most easy (and affordable).”
(Sunan Abu Dawood, 2117)

Explanation: Avoid extravagance in the ceremony and keep the Nikah simple and accessible.

2. Declaring the Nikah Publicly

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“Announce this marriage and perform it in the masjid, and beat the daff (tambourine) for it.”
(Jami` at-Tirmidhi, 1089)

Explanation: The Nikah should be publicized to ensure transparency and community acknowledgment.

3. Setting the Mahr (Dowry)

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“The best of dowries is the one that is easiest.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah, 1887)

Explanation: The Mahr should be reasonable and not burdensome for the groom.

4. Having Witnesses

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“There is no Nikah except with a guardian and two trustworthy witnesses.”
(Sunan Al-Kubra, 5421)

Explanation: Witnesses are essential for a valid Nikah, ensuring transparency and compliance with Islamic law.

5. The Walimah (Marriage Feast)

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“Hold a marriage banquet, even if it is with one sheep.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari, 5167)

Explanation: The groom should host a Walimah to celebrate the marriage, emphasizing hospitality and gratitude.

6. The Prophet’s Dua for the Couple

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“May Allah bless for you (your spouse) and bless you, and may He unite both of you in goodness.”
(Sunan Abu Dawood, 2130)

Explanation: This dua is a beautiful way to seek Allah’s blessings for the couple’s union.

7. Praying Two Rak’ahs Together

Hadith: It is narrated that the Prophet (SAW) instructed a companion to pray with his wife:
“When you marry a woman… pray two rak’ahs together and ask Allah for the good of what you have come together for.”
(Reported by Abu Dawood in "Adab Az-Zifaf")

Explanation: This act invites Allah’s blessings into the marriage from the very beginning.

8. Avoiding Unnecessary Delays

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“If someone whose religion and character you are pleased with proposes marriage, then marry him. If you do not do so, there will be fitnah (tribulation) and corruption on earth.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah, 1967)

Explanation: Once a suitable match is found, the Nikah should not be delayed unnecessarily.

9. Seeking Allah’s Guidance (Istikhara)

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) taught:
“When one of you is deliberating over an important matter, let him pray two rak’ahs and say: ‘O Allah, I seek Your guidance by Your knowledge…’”
(Sahih al-Bukhari, 1166)

Explanation: Performing Istikhara helps seek Allah’s blessings and clarity in deciding about marriage.

10. Choosing a Partner Based on Piety

Hadith: The Prophet (SAW) said:
“A woman is married for four reasons: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her piety. Choose the pious one, and you will prosper.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari, 5090)

Explanation: Piety should be the priority in choosing a spouse to ensure a marriage rooted in faith and values.

By following these Sunnahs, couples can ensure their Nikah is conducted in line with the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW), bringing blessings, harmony, and barakah to their union.